Purposeful Parents: Teach Your Children to Give

teach children to giveThe reality of our society today is that so many people have forgotten – or perhaps never learned – how to care for others without the expectation of receiving something in return. The rejection of the qualities of compassion and kindness has left a negative impression on our youth, who rely on the guidance of trusted leaders to develop positive character traits. The most important thing that we as parents, mentors, and role models can do for our children is to teach them to give. If we want to alter society’s propensity to be self-serving, we must instill in the children of this day the obligation of caring for others.

Lead By Example

We can never approach teaching our children positive qualities by having them “do as we say, not as we do.” One of the greatest responsibilities we carry is to lead by example. In order to teach our children to give, we must ourselves be willing to give. We must care first and present an example to follow if we dare hope to raise children who care.

Take Opportunities to Teach

Life offers many opportunities that can serve as teachable moments. While in your child’s presence, deliberately stop to help someone who is struggling to carry something. Collaborate with your child to select toys and books that are no longer used and together choose a charitable institution to share these items with. Talk with your child when a relative or friend becomes ill and offer to serve together in some capacity or make something special to lift the spirits of the ill person. Finding ways to develop your child’s sensitivity to the needs of others will prove to be simpler than you think.

Our lives are full of opportunity to be kind and share a little of ourselves with others. It truly is a simple thing to acknowledge a need and do our best to meet it.

Towanna B. Freeman is the founder of BlackLifeCoaches.net. She is also a mother of two, community mentor, inspirational speaker, and author of Purposeful Action, 7 Steps to Fulfillment.

5 Responses to Purposeful Parents: Teach Your Children to Give

  1. This is a great article!!!! it means so much to give.

  2. A great example!
    F. Maier asked about 1 month ago
    A group of U.S. middle school students raising money for charity through the collection and resale (to e-Stewards-certified recyclers) is selecting a project to which to donate the thousands of dollars raised. We are considering your project, since Ghana is suffering the impact of pollution from electronics dumping. We would like to know specifically how you would utilize a donation of $5,000.


  3. Great article. Giving from the heart shows a genuine compassion for others. We are indeed “our brothers’ keepers”. Lives can be changed when people feel that someone else truly cares what they’re going through. there wouldn’t be so much aggression, impatience, and mean-spiritedness. We’d be less inclined to stab our neigbors in the back, steal from them or harm their children. Giving always benefits the giver, too. You learn to feel grateful for what you have and consider it a blessing to be able to share. Everybody comes out a winner! Give from the heart. I know it made me a joyful, greatful, insightful, and trul blessed person!

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