T.D Jakes’ Daughter, Sarah Henson Ending 4 Year Marriage

By Nomalanga Mhlauli-Moses

The youngest daughter of mega pastor Bishop T.D. Jakes has released a statement announcing that she is ending her four year marriage.

After just four years, Sarah Henson is divorcing her former NFL player husband, Robert Henson.

In her statement, Henson writes:

I have built my ministry and identity around being the best wife and a mother I can be.
For quite sometime I have tried to steer through some serious troubles at home.
As much as I wanted my marriage to last, it cannot.
After professional counseling, and prayerful consideration I have decided to end my four-year marriage.
There are biblical grounds supporting this decision and I have attempted every other recourse but after multiple infractions over the course of the union, and for my personal safety and that of my children, I have come to this painful decision.
Now that it is made, I would ask for privacy while I navigate through this difficult season in my life so that I may now concentrate on being the best parent for my children possible.
Thank you for your prayers.

Sarah Henson married Robert Henson in a very extravagant wedding ceremony in 2008. At the time, Robert Henson was a student at Texas Christian University. He is a former linebacker for the Washington Redskins.

Sarah Henson was only 19 years old when the couple were married.

Nomalanga helps Black Women thrive in their lives and careers. She is a Social Commentator, an Editor at Your Black World , Assistant Professor of Professional Studies and the reigning Mrs Botswana. Visit Nomalanga’s blog at successfulblackwoman.com

185 Responses to T.D Jakes’ Daughter, Sarah Henson Ending 4 Year Marriage

  1. Sooooo…he cheated and she’s leaving. Mazel tov.

    • Helen Anderson Long

      I have experienced your pain-emotionally and physically. I wish you great success as your serve your children; they are your prize possession, responsibility, and yes your challenge. I truly tried to maintain a happy front for the public, me, and my children. I fooled noone but me.,

      • If you had the benifit of councel from Sis. Vanessa Long, you may still be married. Like wise, Sarah Hensen should take that opportunity to at least talk to Sis. Long, before she thows away her marriage.

        • WTH??????? Vanessa is as fruity as they come. Thats just like telling a cocaine addict to get counseling from Whitney.

        • Lady, you need to put that crack pipe down! Any Nit-Wit that stays with Eddie Long after “doin it” with MULTIPLE guy-kids is RETARDED! And YOU are even more RETARDED to suggest that THIS young lady stays with this abusive, cheating, mandiac, of a punk. PERIOD!

          • I totally agree!!!!!! Whitney Houston hadddd said “Crack is Wack”. Basically let go of the nut sack!

        • CLEARLY Satchel here was being sarcastic! Ha! Good one Satchel. LMAO!

        • This is great counsel sister…ending a marriage of four yrs is not the solution of the problem at hand. There is not biblical injunctions that supported divorce after marriage. (God will judge all unrighteuousness)

          • Are you serious, she does have biblical grounds if adultry was involved….subject change… This lets us know that all that td jakes preach his own daughters marriage didn’t survive….didn’t vet him properly, and your daddy teaching must not have done anything for you…. TD Jakes a big joke….taking all you broke people money earning 18million a year and most of his members living from check to check…and when in need they have to go through a process….lol

      • Evang. Angela Walker

        I beleive you made a wise choise, he is a wofe in sheep clothing! I pray that your children be ok! God Bless you and your family.

    • Or he was beating her.

      • Excited about Grad School!

        Shalom,

        I think he might have been doing a lot from the way her statement reads: Physical, Mental, and Emotional Abuse, as well as Cheating and not being a True Man of G-d. In this case the Bible supports her leaving a relationship where the Man is not behaving as a Man of G-d.

        • I agree. She’s done what she can and is now doing what’s best for her and the children.

        • You have certainly read a lot into her reason for divorce. Is that why Jewish women divorce their husbands? Is it because they lack a true conviction in GOD? Is it because they are: physically, emotionally,and mentally abusive? Are rabbi’s physically, emotionally and mentally abusive to their wives and do they lack a conviction to God? Most Jewish people don’t admit to the high rate of domestic violence in their communities especially in the hasidic communities.

    • IS SHE TDJAKES DAUGHTER OR STEP DAUGHTER I DIDN’T KNOW THAT HE EVER FATHERED ANY CHILDREN

      • You must be thinking of Long, who only has adopted children. T. D. kept his wife pregnant while they were in the hills of West Virginia

      • Apparently, you where on another planet! You never knew he ever fathered any children? It’s amazing how people can be retarded! She is an adult, and i don’t know why they have to mention TD Jake’s Daughter in the tittle. I think it was intentional. Someone is trying to pinpoint something. As for the lady getting divorced, if after consulting God you are convinced this is what he wants for you, go in peace. But the next time around, make sure you pray diligently before embarking in marriage, because I believe somewhere, there is a guy who is connecting with your destiny waiting for you. Only God can reveal him to you.

    • Ms. KMM: You are very immature.

  2. Sad, wish them the best. She needs to call Mrs. Long

    • AMEN!, AMEN, again!

      • Excited about Grad School!

        Shalom,

        That’s exactly what I was thinking. She does not need to call 1st Lady Long for any reason. I do not like when people try to force their own beliefs onto other people. 1ST Lady Long <out of respect, which some do not have apparently, is doing what G-d tells her to do, and not some vindictive soul who sits in judgement. People need to understand that not everyone thinks and believes the same way. So a lot black people need to sit down and stop judging other people and grow up in the true spirit of the L-rd and not all this foolery they do out in the streets. To call the fruit by its fruit, she is probably one of those who do not dress modestly, but dresses like a Harlot but then is throwing stones at a 1st Lady, something she does not ever have the capacity to be. DO NOT THROW STONES WHEN YOU LIVE IN A GLASS HOUSE

      • agree with Jewel..
        Why would or should she call Mrs. Long???

    • I agree with Jewel..
      Why would or should she call Mrs. Long???

    • Why would she call that fool?

  3. Maybe it was her? Why always assume it’s the Black man’s inadequacies?

    • I feel you, whenever a couple goes through a difficult time in their marriage and or relationship, automatically the man is the blame. Even though this may be the case, before I pass judgement, I would like the hear from the husband.

      • Wow Ben it is in real denial, you have already made a judgement! Neither the less we pray for them and for your recovery Ben it

        • Dyfunctional relationships will always reflect the dysfunctional relationship within each person involved in the marriage; as we attract what we are OR “your mate is a mirror of your own soul”. although one person can wake up and forge forward by stepping away to heal the dysfunction. Maybe, she is the victor in the end. Its apparent they both got married too young in the first place.

          • I agree with several statements that were made by several folks on this topic. My journey has taught me that we are all on different levels and in different seasons.

            I believe that God speaks to each of us individually as we seek to hear His voice. He gives us each peace about decisions we make for our lives. Mrs Long made the decision that she needed to make for her life at this level and season. Mrs Henson has made the decision that she has peace with at this level and season for her life.

            In Mrs Henson statement she says that counsel has been sought, she has prayerfully considered her decision; therefore, I don’t see any reason for her to call Mrs Long. If restoration of their union is in order it will happen.

            As people of God our responsibility is to lift her up, to respect, and pray for her, and her children. Might add we are to do the same for Mr Henson. He to is a man of God.

            As “believers” we have all been born into sin. Any person can fall short. We have to do our part in restoring one another to a healthy state.

            My prayer for all commentators here is that we prayerfully consider what our role is upon receiving this sad news that a marriage union is on the verge of dismantling. Are you called to pray, counsel, criticize, tear down, and or build up.

            Blessings and Peace,
            A woman who has prayerfully stayed in a marriage that many would have abandoned. From a woman who continues to be obedient to the voice of the Lord Almighty.

          • Daphne….you said it all! Amen

      • I’d like to hear his side too.

    • Excited about Grad School!

      Go back and read the statement she wrote, and you will clearly see it isn’t her. In truth, you are right it could be her, but the statement says otherwise. She said that she has tried to be a good wife.

      “There are biblical grounds supporting this decision and I have attempted every other recourse but after multiple infractions over the course of the union, and for my personal safety and that of my children, I have come to this painful decision.”

      Instead of you seeing what she has stated, you want to cry whoast me and because I am a black male, I always have to get the blame. Well, I say that if you ARE to blame, then except the blame and move on. If you did wrong then you are at FAULT for whatever you did in a marriage. In this case, she has stated that she has tried to be a good wife, as does many of us black women do. From what she has stated, her husband, a black male probably was violent towards her, as well as cheating. Unfortunately, that is typical of the majority of black males because they were never mentored or trained. In which case, that would be the reason a lot of us younger black women who do have sense, refuse to date or marry because there is nothing out here for me and other young black women to date or marry. The majority of black men out here are not marriage material nor are they father material. If you see something different, then let me know, because from where I am standing, I see a lot of statistics when it comes to black men period.

      • AMEN!!! You sure said it!! Like my mother always told me…
        “black men ain’t s**t”. That’s why I will never marry one or have kids by one!!! This is the main reason white men don’t respect a black man because he knows that black men only want to put their p***s into a hole. They have no intention of supporting their offspring in any way.

        • You sound angry, all Black men are the same…There are still some great black men..as well as any other groups. So stop putting Black men in that situation, I recommend black women shouldnt limit themselves based on race. Its a human factor, it really depends on the man himself, and how much the woman is willing to deal with. But Black women dont limit Love to color of ones skin,but the character of the man, and dont get married until you’re ready for marraige.

      • Women like you will never find a good man black or white, because I am willing to bet your mother was single and had to raise you by herself so know man Wants a women that thinks like him .Their are plenty of good black man out there but not for you. I guess you and your single mother are so tainted that it is impossible for you to keep a man black or white.Do yourself a favor and lay off the Tyler Perry movies. By the way real men are not attracted to fake women.They just treat them like they do you a date and bedroom nothing more a man does not want a women that thinks like him. probably if you take the man pants off you might get one.Until then go out with your single friends and your lonely bed.if you do have a baby no man would stay with you. My parents been married for 35 years black love is powerful.

        • Thank you, Holmes. I couldn’t have said it better myself. She and her angry mother will never maintain a relationship with any man, regardless of race or creed. They are two miserable black women. How sad!

        • Excited about Grad School!

          Here we go with the judgment again. Steps to the Mike.. Grunts Hm Hm… proceeds to make announcement. YOUR ATTENTION PLEASE: FOR ALL OF THE IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE WHO INSIST ON THROWING STONES WHEN THEY LIVE IN A GLASS HOUSE, PLEASE TAKE NOTE, THAT NOT EVERYONE THINKS OR FEELS THE SAME. IT IS LIZ’S RIGHT TO SAY AND THINK WHAT SHE WANTS TO, AND IT IS NOT HOLMES’S RIGHT TO TALK ABOUT SOMEONE’S PARENT. TALKING ABOUT SOMEONE’S PARENTS IS GROUND TO GET A SERIOUS BEAT DOWN. TALKING ABOUT SOMEONE’S PARENTS IS CHILDISH AND DISRESPECTFUL, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT SOMEONE’S PARENTS HAVE BEEN THROUGH. NOT EVERYONE IS SAVED. DO NOT SAY ON THE NET WHAT YOU WOULD NOT SAY IN FRONT OF YOUR OWN PARENTS. HOLMES PLEASE GROW UP AND FAST

        • @ Holmes… Amen to what you said. With all the negative stereotypes being said against Black men your comment is well received. I am a biracial woman and I am incensed to hear the sweeping generalizations and stereotypes made against all Black men. It is not right. What these dumb black women commentators don’t realize is that they are talking about their own: father’s, brother’s, son’s, nephews, son – in -law,and grandson’s. They are also talking about the President of the United States, and the Travon Martins of the world. This is why George Zimmerman could get away with shooting Travon Marin in cold blood because of the racist hate black females have against black men. These women who posted these derogatory comments against Black men are the stupidest bunch of black women God ever created. I now understand why my biracial sons who have a quarter black blood in them, considering I am biracial and their dad was Arab, would not walk down the street with a black girl. They are hateful. And what is really stupid is that all these black women who are hating on black men are going to bed down with a black man. What other race really wants to be with most black women. Most black men don’t want the black women out there. More power to the educated black men who leave these type of black women behind and keep it pushing. These women make me proud to be biracial.

      • My God! What grad school accepted you? Not only are you the same judgmental that you’re accusing others of being, you’re mean spirited and stupid. You infer that a person you don’t even know “is probably one of those who do not dress modestly, but dresses like a Harlot.” WTF? I bet you think you’re saved and filled with the Holy Ghost. What the H*ll kind of fruit are you known by?

        As for being judgmental, that’s exactly what Eddie Long was the entire time he was in the closet s******g around with young men in the congregation while he was castigating homosexuals. Regarding “1st Lady Long,” Closet Eddie’s choice is not a 1st, 2nd or 3rd LADY.

        Throwing stones at the 1st Lady? With the HIV and STD epidemic occurring in innocent black women, the “1st Lady” should take her leadership role seriously and set an example by acknowledging Closet Eddie’s homosexuality or bisexuality and protecting herself from HIV.

        • Excited about Grad School!

          ere we go with the judgment again. Steps to the Mike.. Grunts Hm Hm… proceeds to make announcement. YOUR ATTENTION PLEASE: FOR ALL OF THE IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE WHO INSIST ON THROWING STONES WHEN THEY LIVE IN A GLASS HOUSE, PLEASE TAKE NOTE, THAT NOT EVERYONE THINKS OR FEELS THE SAME. I WAS SPEAKING TO SOMEONE WHO MIS-SPOKE ON THE SITUATION. AGAIN, 1ST LADY LONG DOES NOT NEED TO CALL ANYONE, SHE DOES WHAT G-D SAYS TO DO AND NOT SOME VINDICTIVE SOUL WHO SITS IN JUDGMENT. YOU DONT HAVE THE CAPACITY TO BE A 1ST LADY EITHER. NEXT THE ONLY STUPID PERSON IS YOU BECAUSE YOU AS WELL MIS-SPOKE. I WAS REFERRING TO ERICA NOT BEING A MODEST DRESSER TO PROVE A POINT. NEXT I ONLY SPOKE TO THE OTHER INDIVIDUAL TELLING HIM THAT IF A MAN IS AT FAULT THEN EXCEPT HIS WRONGS AND MOVE ON, SO LEARN TO READ BEFORE YOU SPEAK AND END UP STICKING YOUR FOOT IN YOUR THROAT. AND YES I AM IN GRAD SCHOOL, SOMETHING ELSE YOU PROBABLY CANNOT ACHIEVE BECAUSE YOU AREN’T SMART ENOUGH TO REACH THAT POINT. LAST THING, YOU ARE NOT G-D SO YOU CAN’T THROW STONES AT THE 1ST LADY, ME OR ANYONE ELSE FOR THAT MATTER. SOMEONE NEEDS TO ACCEPT YOU TO A SCHOOL OF COMMON SENSE. I GET SICK OF STUPID UNEDUCATED BLACK FOLK WHO TRY TO JUDGE PEOPLE BUT ARE NO WHERE NEAR CLEAN.

          WHAT SENSE DID THIS STATEMENT MAKE?: Closet Eddie’s choice is not a 1st, 2nd or 3rd LADY.

          NONE AT ALL SO SHUT THE h**l UP BROAD

          • @Excited about Gradschool I finally understand why my son who comes from a mixed family HATES black females. He thinks that most of them are hideous and uneducated including the oreos. Nobody is attracted for the most part to black women. This does not apply to all black women of course. Most black women are ugly, uneducated, ghetto, mean spirited, racist and not worth the time of day. And that is why when black men make it big they go outside their race to marry a white or white looking woman. I have three sons who are incredibly handsome, brilliant, personable and have been lookers since they were born. They are mixed and have a quarter black blood and have never dated any black girl. I am biracial but I am open minded to all people. So all these negative stereotypes against black men apply to black women too. More power to the black men who date outside of their race. At least their kids will be attractive.

          • @ Excited about grad school… You are so d**n stupid. I am floored that you actually believe that you did something by going to some obscure grad school. Millions upon millions of people get into grad school every day. You must be pretty dumb if getting into grad school is such a great accomplishment too you. You have not done anything great. And it would be nice if you gave God respect by spelling God’s name correctly. It is God, not G-d. You are an idiot if you spell God’s name incorrectly. And you spell God’s name like a Jew. And you are an ignorant: N.

        • @Sue… You are exactly right. “Excited about gradschool” is an idiot. If you notice sometimes she includes the word Shalom and other times she doesn’t. Shalom among Jews means peace. And then she writes:God in the wrong way. She writes G-d instead of God. And only Jews do that. I don’t see why anything she says matters because she is not a Christian anyway. She is not saved and that is why she is so hateful. She is following a religion that does not believe in a h**l. Nor do the Jews believe in Jesus Christ as their savior or Messiah and they put him to death. If she is Black then she is a Black Jew convert. She is banging some Jew boy who would not bring her through the front door of a synagogue. I think before she comments on any Christian then she should get saved otherwise nothing she says matters.

      • To my sister who is excited about grad school, I’m happy for your joy for the future. As for this article, you indicated that you have traveled the world when you said “the majority of black males and the majority of black men.” I have been all over the world in my 20 plus years in the military and I have not seen most of the black men so I don’t know what their customs are. But I do agree with you, having been married for 48 years, having a daughter and two grandLadies pluse 6 sisters, the sister did the right thing in moving on with her life. As the old song goes, “you can do good by yourself.”

        • @ The Big V. Why do Negroes use the term sister when corresponding with other black women? She is not your sister. You don’t even know her. Your sisters came out of your mom’s couchie.

      • @ EXCITED ABOUT GRAD SCHOOL- PREACH, SISTA!!!

        • @Cherilyn White She is not a “sista.” She is a black jew convert. And the both of you are the reason black men choose white women over you every day of the week. It is rare to find a black man that can find beauty in a black female. They are ugly both inside and out. More power to interracial couples. To all the black men white women will make much more beautiful kids, make more money, and be much more educated by some black woman. Black women also carry the most std’s.

      • You are a Black Jew and your sole purpose is to denigrate Black men. As a woman of color I find that your statements are racist based on sweeping generalizations. You have abandoned Christianity for a false religion: Judiaism. You were not a born Jew you took your ghetto Black self to a synagogue and gave your black booty to some rabbi so he could accept you into the back door. And the same way you feel about Black men is the same way white Jews feel about you. I wonder how many white Jews would marry you? You will definitely be a Jews left over. How can you comment about anything God related when you are not following Christianity which is the religion you were born into. You are a pathetic oreo.

  4. Get out while you can baby and dont look back. Continue to be the strong woman that your parents raised you to be and dont feel bad about your decision made for you and your kids, they deserve better. Some men just dont know a good woman even if it bit them in the face. Time will heal those wounds and a more appreciative man will come into your life. Be blessed.

    • and you forgot one more thing Lisa….DON’T GET MARRIED AGAIN.

      • Georgejansen are you crazy or just an down right idiot??? After her recovery from the divorce, she has a right to date again and will probably find A HERO! Life doesn’t stop with Robert Henson! He just taught everything that she didn’t want in man! Good for her and her decision.. I say, “Drop that zero and find herself a hero!

        • She will never find a hero. In the black community, there is no such thing! All black men cheat and that includes so-called preachers like Eddie Long, Jamal Bryant, Zachery Timms, you name it. Women have to finally realize that it is in a man’s nature to have more than one woman. So knowing this, why would you even consider getting married in the first place? A woman is “prey” to a man just like a zebra is “prey” to a lion in the jungle. Get real. If you just have to “get married” than don’t get upset when your man cheats on you because you already know he going to do it! Just the facts…don’t shoot the messager.

          • Very sad if you actually believe that there are no Black men of character and integrity. I’m a witness, there is. I could introduce you to several but I’d be doing them a disservice. No good (Black) man should ever be subjected to a cynical, angry, hopeless, woman who is disgruntled with life. Here’s another message, likes attract. It is impossible to attract what you don’t even know exists.

          • Excited about Grad School!

            @ Liz, please ignore Sue. Someone needs to put a boot on her neck. This statement:

            “Very sad if you actually believe that there are no Black men of character and integrity. I’m a witness, there is. I could introduce you to several but I’d be doing them a disservice. No good (Black) man should ever be subjected to a cynical, angry, hopeless, woman who is disgruntled with life. Here’s another message, likes attract. It is impossible to attract what you don’t even know exists.”

            Makes you sound like a Call Girl!!!!! I don’t think you like being judged like that do you??? That’s the same thing you did to 1st Lady Long. So p**s off ratchet harlot…..

          • @Liz Your man cheats not all men cheat. You obviously could not satisfy your man/men so they screwed around behind your back. Are you ugly, dark, fat, shapeless, what? You make no sense telling women to commit fornication by not marrying. Just because you can’t find a faithful man it your experience does not apply to the rest of us. You are probably unattractive and no man will ever be faithful to YOU.

          • @ Liz Sue is right. And someone needs to put their foot up your a…

  5. Sometimes we do what we gotta do inorder to make it through. A lot of people will try to use this as a way to speak badly about THE CHURCH and Bishop Jakes but I’m sure those same People.are going through or have been through the same thing.

  6. This is very sad news from the perspective of the “role model” Christians have with our great commission from Jesus, to make disciples of men.

    When people of influence such as this couple are unable to show that the marriage institution does work, what does this say to the “world”. The divorce rate in America is over 55% and even higher in the church among Believers, this is and was not God’s intention for this institution. This means that 6 out of every 210 marriges fail. This means that people don’t understand how it is suppose to work, the numbers don’t lie.

    The world states that money and s*x issues are the number one and two reasons for divorce, however, these are only symptoms of the “root” issue. The root issue is “a lack of knowledge”. Most people don’t under stand the purpose of marriage, from the creator of it, before they enter into it. Any time you have a person or people who do not understand the “purpose” of a thing, abuse is inevitable.

    As Believers, with a commission, to be representatives of the Christian lifestyle, we must get “in the know” about this very vital institution of marriage.

    Most people in America get married because of the “benefits” and never understand the “purpose”. Most marriages in America are based on a “contract”, you do this and don’t do this, these are “conditions”. Marriage, from the creator of it, was to be based on “covenant”, an agreement between two or more parties to carry out the terms agreed upon for life, “unconditional”. Selfishness is at the root of any divorce by either one or both parties.

    So sorry to hear this sad news, let’s “get in the know”.

    Tim Stewart – TalkManTalk

    • DOESN’T MAKE HER A BAD PERSON OR “UNSAVED”. SHE’S AND ALONG WITH MYSELD ARE JUST A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF CHRISTIANS BEING NOT PERFECT, JUST FORGIVEN.

    • Did you not read the statement the woman gave? Even Jesus said that Moses officiated divorces in the Old Testament because of the cruelty of husbands towards their wives. I acknowledge that there are two sides to this story. However, if this is a case of a man not loving his wife as his own flesh, then divorce is imminent. These two people are normal human beings, not “role models” as Bishop Jakes is. Give them credit for trying.

    • Your message is right and I thank you for sharing. I am in agreement.

    • Tim stewart, well done and well said. Your name like mine means honoring God so keep up the good counciling

      The enemy is after the seed of the woman and been not able to get to Bishop J and First Lady Serita he is going after the seed. Let us please pray

      Tim Hudson

    • Perhaps we should stop elevating people to “role model” and “people of influence” status unless and until they have earned those distinctions. Where is the biblical basis for bestowing titles and accolades merely because your daddy pastors a mega church?

      Ms. Henson is merely a 23 year old young woman who most likely married too young influenced by becoming a parent too soon. No more, no less. God give her grace and guidance as she finds her way.

      • @ Sue Amen. You are right on point. If she was not T.D. Jakes daughter nobody would give a rat’s a*s about her impending divorce. Fifty percent of all marriages across racial boundaries end in divorce. What is the big deal? Sue I totally agree with the statement you made, “stop elevating people to role model and people of influence status.” All of a sudden all black men are bad because the bishops daughter is going through a divorce. That is ridiculous. Her marriage did not work. She needs to get over it and keep it moving. This is really not news.

    • You’re absolutely right Tim Stewart!~

      And I wonder how the “root” issue, can make the surface issues improve? We’re all adults right? Well, we’re in an over the top, in your face highly sexed society. It’s everywhere, and I believe that we’re forced to compete with the highly commercialized s*x in your face world that we see every day.

      Now, this may or may not have anything to do with this, but if I see one more young lady walk in the church with a mini skirt and stilettos, I’m gonna lose my mind. No wonder young men lose their way……and old men too.

      What do young ladies (and some older ones too) think men think of when they see them in short skirts?

      I’m digressing, but there are challenges in the body, and we have to address them in the body. Not to say that the wearing of longer skirts could address a man’s wandering eye, or adulterous spirit, but this is just my issue today.

      I will not state that all men cheat, like Liz says (and btw Liz – I don’t appreciate your attack on all Black men, because they’re not all like that)…..however we both know that it takes two people to make a marriage work, but if one is working and the other continues in their wayward behavior, what recourse does one have?

      • @ Misslourde You are off topic with the reference to the way some people dress when they go to church. Since you did go there, you need to remember the part in the bible where Jesus said, “come as you are.” And God said, “Judge not lest ye be judgest in the same way that thou judge.”

    • Well Said!

  7. SAD MY a*s ERICA…SHE KNEW THAT Nxxxx WAS NO GOOD BEFORE SHE DRAG HIS a*s DOWN THE AL. PROBABLY HAD THAT “I CAN CHANGE HIM” MENTALITY. ATTENTION LADIES…WHEN ARE ALL YOU CLOWNS GOING TO REALIZE THAT WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT WE MEN IS THE TRUTH? WE ARE ALL DAWG. “NOT MY MAN”…YOU DON’T THINK SO. PUT SOME HOT a*s, DELICIOUS, TIGHT SKINNED 18 YEAR OLD IN FRONT OF HIM. NOW HIDE AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS. ALL MEN ARE DAWGS BUT WE JUST COME IN MANY DIFFERENT BREEDS THAT’S ALL. AND WE MUST HAVE OUR “MEDICINE” CONSTANTLY OR WE WILL SEEK NEW OWNERS……d**n

    • You are so right!!! Bravo for telling the truth. Woman need to wake the h**l up and stop being so naive! The wedding vows should be honest. The groom should openly say in front of everybody “Sweetie, you know I am going to cheat on you whenever I want but I am only marrying you to get my laundry done, get s*x on demand, get home cooked meals around the clock and most importantly, get you and your mom out of my face about getting married! Honey, you know I am going to get bored looking at your dumb looking and desperate face all the time so don’t get bent out of shape when I cheat. I love you but I love ME and my p***s more!” This is when the so called cheating a*s preacher will laugh and asked you two to say “I do”. Now this is a real wedding!!!!!

  8. Another golddigger hiding behind the cloth and daddy’s position and fame in the church – disgraceful!

    • What facts do you have to back your statement up?? Do you know her personally, and was her friend before she got married? It appears that if anybody was a gold digger, it might have been him.. Did you read her statement? He is an ex-football player…Her family has more money than you can ever dream of (R) shake a stick @.. Obviously she was in love with him to marry him, because she could have choose anyone she wanted,, who would’ve been glad to be apart of that family.. Maybe you need to get a life.. it’s is obvious that right now.. you don’t have one.. Maybe start attending somebody’s church, will be a great beginning.. Bless you on your journey..

  9. You couldn’t have made a better statement. You said what you needed to say without saying and hurting the situation more. I respect that so much and after reading some of these comments it sad that most people assume what they think based on what you didn’t say. So I truly wish you the best and I will keep you and your family in prayer.

  10. I am also going thru this same “pain”..with a professional musician.It is truly sad that these ‘men’ who are in the ‘spotlight’ cannot steer themselves away from the temptations that are lurking about.

  11. I have been married for 16 years to my childhood sweetheart of 25 years. We have our ups and downs but we still love and respect each other. We came to God together and we raise our children to believe in the Almighty and marriage. So it is possible to find someone a d all marriages are not doomed!

    • Good for you, but since she lived her situation in her own marriage, she doesn’t consider staying in a d marriage is an option that she is comfortable with.. Wish her the best and keep her in your prayers, because you can not compare apples and oranges.. She is not you, and neither are you living or walking in her shoes..

    • Good for you honey. Do your ups and downs in your marriage mean he was going up and down with his p***s inside another woman? No doubt!
      This is why woman have such low self esteem. A “real” woman wouldn’t take a man’s s**t! Get counseling and stand up for yourself. Your kids will appreciate it!! I refuse to marry and I am over 50 years old with no kids. I modeling for a living and will never let any man talk his dumb s**t to me. I say hi and goodbye very politely and keep it moving. The only thing a man could do for me is wash my car when I go through the car wash!

      • It appears you are the kind of woman who lures men to cheat on their wives, just as in the present case. You apparently like such a lifestyle that is why you do not want to get married. You are shallow, very man – hating, ie opposite of misogyny. You are displaying such visciously anti-man demeanor, whose roots took to the ground in the 70′s, and which most women, looking back, now regret that they were a part of such movement. Does it surprise you that the leader of this man-hatting movement, Gloria Stienem, is now happily married to a man, not a woman, at an older age? Stienem discovered the truth at last, that a woman is never complete, and cannot be complete withou a man by her side. And I say this in ways that have absolutely nothing to do with being chauvinistic.

  12. That “fairytale” wedding could have fed a whole lot of poor folk. Dude probably was cheating and she, like any other loving wife and mother, was crushed. Poor baby. Wonder how dude is going to do the child support thingy? Is he working for Bishop Jakes? Himself? Just wondering how they were being supported since she’s now “focusing on hier ministry” and being the best mother. What “ministry?” Who’s supporting her–Bishop & Mrs. Jakes? If that be the case then that means the congregaton’s money (or part of it) was going into her household. Something more to this Cindarella pumpkin done crashed story. Oh well … guess this’ll be Jakes’ next movie. SMDH

    • MS THANG

      WHEWWW! HILARIOUS!!! SPEECHLESS!!! AND, SO TRUE.

    • Bishop Jakes’ ministry feeds folks every week and much more for those not doing well economically. He has income does not come from what the parishioners give to him. Besides, what he does with his money is his business – not yours. By the way, what are you doing to better the human condition?

      • Excited about Grad School!

        Better yet, I hope she’s saved while passing judgement someone she doesn’t even know, plus behaving ignorantly.

      • (R) maybe you think that the money that Bishop Jakes get, should go into a basket and sent up to heaven so God can distribute it to the heavenly angels , in heaven.. That’s how ignorant you sound! It doesn’t matter where the source of her monies come from..Just like it is nobody’s business where your money source, come from.. and neither is it your business.. If she has no money , are you going to give her some of yours? I think not.. Stop hating..People have a right to do with their monies as they choose!

        • THE BISHOP’R MONEY IS MADE OFF THE BACKS OF POOR PEOPLE WHO BELIEVE IN HIS FALSE MESSAGES AND PROPHECIES. HIS PEOPLE ARE BEDAZZLED AND SOLD SNAKE OIL BY HIM AND ALL THE REST OF THE PIMPS IN THE POOL PIT. LIES, TRICKERY, SMOKE AND MIRRORS ARE RELIED ON IN THESE SETTINGS MORE SO THAN REAL ANSWERS TO REAL LIFE CHALLENGES.HE WAS INVITED TO PRAY FOR PHILLY. TO THIS DAY I DON’T UNDERSTAND WHY HE CAME. HOW MANY RENTS FOLKS COULD HAVE BEEN HELPED WITH BASED ON THE ENTIRE COST OF THIS FRIVOLOUS NONPRODUCTIVE CHARADE IN THE NAME OF JESUS?

    • I have been married to the same black man for 16 1/2 years. He is the world’s greatest. I hate that you choose
      the wrong man to give your heart too. Until you forgive, heal and move forward misery will be your mate regardless of who you date.

  13. There are many possible variations of what truly happened, but whatever they are they aren’t part of the solution, or healing process. I do believe when women are looking to marry the rich and famous, you gotta realize there’s thousands of others trying anything they can to replace you. These people aren’t you’re average “plumber Joe” because the average guy don’t have hundreds of women standing outside the facilities trying anything to s****h him up. Beautiful women, with the best bodies money can buy. Born and raised to be what Rich person wants, bred for Aug a time as this! You better know the person your talking about getting married to or you’re marriage will end just like this!

  14. and why is this news

  15. I guess being out of the NFL for two years was just too much for them to handle. Her statement certainly touched on all the necessary notes, so Henson was vaguely accused of infidelity and abuse to someone (wife and/or kids) without her actually saying the words. Since he has no livelihood right now, I don’t expect him to say much, just slink off into the sunset with all the other football players whose NFL dreams didn’t survive the sunrise.

  16. He was cheating on her with multiple women one of them was with him even longer than she was he didn’t beat her she was threatened by one of his concubines with great harm. Tragic because she’s a sweet girl.

    • you know……..one can only wonder how that chick must’ve felt when he told her he was marrying the Bishop’s daughter. She must’ve really worked hard to destroy that marriage…..shame on you Robert Henson and your whores. they will never have any happiness…..

      and WOE to that chick who threatened the Bishop’s daughter…….hmph~ I wish I was Serita Jakes, honey I’da went after that chick……….smh (sorry, the ghetto came out)

      cheating and then threatening the wife……….wt* ain’t nuthin but the devil

    • When people marry in their younger years, they marry for LOVE – not money, not position, not based on who your father is.

      He never loved the Bishop’s daughter. That is why he cheated.

  17. Why is it so,that so many Christians are getting divorce, Christians, who are suppose to be upholding God standard for marriage, which is a lifelong commitment. Instead of giving testimony and being example of the standard there are more divorces in the church than in the world. Because of this the reproach falls on our undeserving God. How sad! Too many Christians are getting married for l**t, money, fame, and a title instead of trying to get evenly yoked and choosing a partner on the bases of their godliness and their love for God. just think about the unbeliever that might be entertaining the thought of becoming a Christians on the bases of having a forever marriage because they heard that’s what Christianity stands for. Then look to Christians to find prove of that and are turned away because they find just as many divorces inside or Christianity if not more. It is so sad to sit in church all your life and end up going to h**l .If you want to go to h**l, go to h**l first class, if you want to go to heaven, go to heaven first class .what ever you do give it your all, just don’t play in the middle. Real Christians take a stand and be what God call us to be,not fake, but real.

  18. These judgmental and self-righteous religious remarks are unreal and insane. The girl got married at 19? What does anyone know at 19??? Come on! Give me a break. At 19 you still can’t urinate straight. Come on already. She said she was only 19 which is a confession that she wasn’t as smart and ready as she thought she was. She’s beginning to see the light. What’s so hard about wishing her the best and praying for her healing because the price she now has to pay for that mistake will follow her for the rest of her earthly days until the scar is completely removed. That will take much time and the best I can do is truly ask the Father to carry her through this like only he can. We just too selfish and void of the love necessary to do more. Yes, and I’m on that void list. Please pray for me.

  19. Mz Thang, you’re about the only one on here who made a lot of sense. the rest was basically bs. the food banks in my community could have used some of that fairytale wedding money. she said she worked on the marriage, but how do we really know that? she’s working on her ministry??? can i get a break up in here? i guess life won’t be too hard at this point, having daddy’s money eases the pain somewhat. Mz thang you answered the question of how she’s going to support herself. i know for one thing, she’s not going to work for it.i have no tears for the bishop’s daughter. and as someone said, it may very well be her fault.

  20. She married too young for this day and age.But she and her ex-husband
    has to learn with the rest of us too.God Bless her and the family.

  21. Godfrey: Christian women are so into s*x,men and marriage.They don’t. wait for God to send them a husband. There are many Christian women ,but how many “BORN AGAIN WOMEN” Romans:10:9.There are many women who have no fathers and some have fathers who are gone.There jobs keep them away from home.There are young men who want young women who have never been active sexually,and come from well known families.Ladies, you know when it is not for you.Wait two years and I guarantee you he will find some one else.Wait on God to send you the right husband.

    • I have waited…still waiting…..I’m in my 50′s ..all sounds good.but u wrong for puttin a time limit on success…now that is false hope. in GOD’s time is more promising.

      • Nelda,if Born Again Christian women would wait and keep their eyes on God and the Bible.,find out God’s calling for their life and quit trying to find a no good wordly man,or Christian man.Believe me I know and have experienced it.You are too busy with your eyes on a man and not God.Wait on God!! Sarah had to wait

    • Your comment was interesting, “these young men want young women who have never been active sexually, but come from well known families…”

      I believe it. Men are interesting. They may say this is what they want…..but I believe when it comes down to it, they really want much more than that……….” They like the sound of “having a virgin wife”, but they ain’t really prepared for that. perhaps this is why concubines have been around since perhaps the beginning of time…….

      but concubines was never the reason for divorce…..

  22. Yes Sarah, you have built an awesome ministry. you have shown us all that you love the Lord. I pray that you will be comforted from the pain of these major decisions you have made and that you receive the much needed privacy you have requested. God Bless

  23. As a single mom, I agree with the post about Jakes giving more money to the poor. I think the all of the pastors and Politian’s should be a lot more generous, especially to the Black community. My mailbox is full of request for money from pastors and Politians, and neither has blessed me. However, if all we can say badly about Jakes is that, his daughter is divorcing; in my opinion, we do not have much to say. If we could control the actions of our kids, handpick who they will marry, exempt them from heartache; we should all have perfect children. Do we really believe the fallacy and fantasy that pastors, celebrities, and rich people do not have problems? If Jakes and his family were more like the Huxtable’s, I think their ministry would be a fraud. This divorce situation is not the pretty picture we want to see of our idolized church royalty. Nevertheless, it is real. My prophesy is that God is going to use this disenchantment to bring a deliverance message deep out of the belly of Jakes and his daughter, that will minister to us all.

  24. There are two sides to all stories.The religious see this as relating to the bble.I am not religious. I see this lady as being impossible to live with because of her dependency on religion. I see her as some what of a gold digger. His football career is over and so is the football money. I can’t help but believe that that is influencing the mariage. Don’t believe it just because she said it.

  25. I think her statement was sufficient. Their lives, Their story. The End.

  26. Where was Daddy when his little girl was getting played?

    • He was stealing money from all those fools..

    • Daddy was where he should be,Preaching and Teaching the Gospel.
      Sis Henson use this one as a learning and teaching experience. I truly believe God has something more for you to do in the WORD. Your ministry and your book might be on domestic stuff.
      But instead of putting anyone down, we should be praying for them. Those of us who have been through divorce know that it can be painful but, Sis Henson there is life after divorce.
      May God Bless

    • Probably somewhere playing with hubby!

  27. Hope and pray that everthing work out for her this Is sad may God continue to bless her and the family. I will be praying.

  28. It is too bad that there marriage did not work out. I suspect that they were both to blame, although I cannot qualify this. Is this not the young lady and her mate, the ones who the Bishop proclaimed was going to be a divine marriage. Is she the young lady who had a child in her teens before she was married. Please correct me if I an mistaken. As a bar: if your parents and particularly your father treats you like a princess, is it wrong or unrealistic to expect your mate to do the same. Personally for me, age of 19 is too young for marriage because they have not breathed enough on their own or been without their parents guidance.

  29. definitely praying for her and his family.. divorce is not easy for anyone.
    After nearly 10 years of marriage.. I can honestly say it truly takes God being in total control.

  30. What type of father let’s they daughter marry at 19.By her father being a pull pit pimp that plays on weak minded single women he should have known better.I guess since he was a pro football player he paid the right tithe.

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  32. So she releases a statement to the media, sneaks in accusations against him and THEN asks for privacy?

    SMH, yet another “feel sorry for me” black woman, this is getting old.

    And to Liz who said just like her mother told her black men in’t s**t, you and you’re bitter mother are just angry about your own short comings as women.

  33. She was too young to get married anyway. And besides, why does she have “children”? She had to know prior to now that something was wrong in her marriage. Black women are so quick to have babies. Get to know who you are and how you all work as a couple before having kids.

    • Well, the Bible, encourages marriage between people who cannot contain themselves, and what else happens between two people who are consummating a relationship – babies!

      Yeah, it was young, for us perhaps, but it was right for her, and I’m sure her parents.

  34. Wow, it is Jakes job to concucil couples? Jehovah just exploding the “goats” she just did saying she can do and have all.

  35. Its sad to hear news like this…. But one can’t mistake the reality that this is the results of her own bad decision (somewhat of a reflection on the misteachings of her father).

    Why on earth would a woman barely out of her teens suddenly want to up and marry a guy going to a professional sports program??? Think about it for one second. I presume this would be her not wanting to lose the guy to what the NFL would expose him to.. (the most beautiful women all over the world).

    Sadly, there is no way in today’s day and age anyone can not realize young college athletes turn pro often wind up in some of the most spawning of evil circumstances imaginable; groupies, whores, drugs, partying, excess in wealth, greed, l**t, the list goes on and on and on.

    If anything, I don’t feel to badly for her as I really think she probably put pressure on this obvious immature loser to marry her. (using her father’s public image as the pressure). She in the end learned a valuable lesson…. a person’s soul is not measured by their level of success or money. Good luck to her and the Jakes family.

    • Bishop Jakes is an awesome man of God, and Mrs. Jakes is a great woman of God, who raise their children according to Biblical principles and those that they followed.

      You’re right about the sports program thing. However, she fell in love – he was at a Christian university, he thought she would be the perfect wife, young, innocent, perhaps virginal, and make the best wife and mother for his kids.

      That whole sports thing got real to him, and he threw caution to the wind, and that old wench that he was dating wouldn’t let him go…….

      I’m so sorry for Ms. Sarah, the whole experience had to be painful, the cheating, the threats, the infidelity. I know her parents and her ministry will get her through this tough time. It’ll be interesting to watch for her testimony for young women.

      I wish we all could find the virtues and tenets in our current relationships that keep Bishop and Mrs. Jakes together. I’m sure she has been in similiar situations. But they’ve weathered the storms. God bless the Jakes family~

  36. All the best to her.

  37. We understand without you pouring out your personal pain to satisfied out taste. You are doing what is best in God’s eyes. May you and your family continue to be Blessed and your ex continue to find his way.

  38. Well, I see the Christian community is at it again. Calling a dog a cat and a cat a dog because both of them have fur but never stop to look at them. How can you tell what goes on in another persons home and you don’t live there.

  39. Was it really necessary to release a statement and cite “biblical reasons”? Half of all marriages do…no need to announce it.

  40. WELL I PRAY D ONLY BIBLICAL SUPPORT U CLAIM 2 HV IS DAT HE CHEATED? OR ELS U R WRONG N ON A VERY LOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNNNG TIN WT GOD!

  41. My dear you were very young to have gotten married but you will get over this horrible experience and be a stronger woman you are fortunate to have a solid support system your parents will always be there for you do not look back and wonder, look ahead and dream of a better life without having fear of your safety, hold your head up and be proud,
    and please DO NOT CALL MRS LONG

  42. After reading many of the post, It seems that man was cheating, lying, beating her, or abusing her in some undefined way. I have been married now for over 25 years now. I waited until I was ready, but I had a lot of women who asked me on the first date to marry them. As a single man for many years before gettng married, I will assure you that many married women cheat…a lot. Many could defuse arguments, but they pour gas on the fire, many trade s*x for gifts…yes in marriage. It is not always the man’s fault and I believe that many women would be better off looking inside, rather than blaming the most convenient person…the man nearest to you. After getting married, I have met many women who wanted to cheat, and they lie to their husbands. Now wonder the go to church so much.

    • ooooooooooooo, Nato – you said a mouthful. And full of truth.

      but that being said, I KNOW our fleshly challenges are real issues, that’s why WE go to church……

      ….cause I believe that men are tempted more than women……but that’s why “concubines” have been around probably since the beginning of time

  43. And who really cares? There are so many people getting divorces and it is none of our business and this is no different.

  44. Dear All,
    Having read so many of the comments here, i want to say that there are many angles to sarah hensons’ statement(but i think the problem began with her choice). I mean to say none of us really knows the practical real time situations they as a family have faced.
    I think if your choice of the person you want to marry is the result of pure obedience to God (irrespective of whether you are man of God or not or daughter of a man of God or not), You should have a good marriage. Even after such God-led choices have been made; God did not guaranty a smooth marital journey, but God did guaranty a safe landing if the two of you continue to be in the Lord.
    Any one of you here remember Kathryn kuhlman? Go read about her. You’ll know that yes men can really hurt their women(i don’t like that), but women can also equally hurt their men..
    I was at a wedding of friend, but meennn, what the girl did to my friend who had always been faithful to her by eloping with another man (no one knew she was double dating all the while before the wedding and yet she was xtian!),she went ahead and married him without my friend knowing she was doing two relationships! Thank God my friend had never touched her! He struggled with a lot pain in his heart, he had barely married for a week, he had not even touched his wife and was planning to before discovering. My friend happens to be number two of such victims. the number 1 such victim is not married till date( he almost couldn’t recover from the shock.

    Here’s the truth every one of us must let live in every fiber of our being: Once you disobey Gods leading in your choice of marriage partner; it doesn’t matter whether you’re man of God or the son of a man of God, you will live with consequences. It doesn’t mean God won’t forgive you and neither would God not bless, in fact God will bless as much as such a sin is not limiting, but in the end you will reap that seed you’ve sown. If you see King David of the old testament, ask him. when you across father Abraham, he will gist you about the seed of his servant Hagar. Need i say more? It does not mean TD Jakes didn’t do a fine upbringing for the child because we all don’t know either but then its not easy raising a child. Believe me since i have mine.
    Yes men will always be men. But ladies, let God choose for you the man you should marry. There’s no finer a way of getting into marriage.
    I only knew this much because of Gods grace and teaching and leading in my personal life and help from old men in the faith. words cannot express how much i love my wife and appreciate her despite her frailties but believe me, it doesn’t mean i don’t get tempted many times, but God holds me more than i could even have held myself against temptation of the opposite s*x. God has now become my strength through whom i flex my manhood.
    I hope the ladies would understand that is simply a journey much like the xtian life, you obedience simply to follow directions God gives you is just all that really matters, then God will fight your battles for you. God will only sustain that which he starts!

    • Why do you use “x”, in place of Christ? that’s a problem……..

      but thank you for explaining the man’s side

      God can pick a man for you, it does not mean that that man won’t be tempted, and will not cheat.

      just because a man is a believer, it doesn’t change his nature…….

  45. Ok. Im going to address the ?&%#$@ that said she should seek advice or counsel from VANESSA LONG!!! Smh. Christians (or those frontin as christians, anyways) STAY in denial. Then when the grits hit the fan, they sit there with their hands up in the air, hollerin and praying to God for deliverance. God gives us ALL common sense, AND wisdom. Vanessa is in NO shape to give anyone counsel, unless they want to know how to stay in denial of who their husband(s) REALLY IS. Eddie Long is gay and a pedophile. And a pervert. Yet, Vanessa stays with him. Thats yucky! Nauseating. Disgusting. Thats no marriage; thats an arrangement. These younger kids dont put up with bull for too long, like older women in the religious setting do. There was a generation of (church) women that died of AIDS with their DL preacher husbands. That went to church with black eyes and with the crew of women in the church that was s******g their husbands. That just put up with sheer nonsense, all in the name of religiosity and fear of being condemned if she left. Smh. Im glad I wasnt one of them. If Sarah believes she need to leave this cheating joker before he gives her AIDS, then SHE SHOULD BE FREE TO LEAVE! No condemnation here. At least she is smart and wise enough to get the h**l OUT!

  46. Getting married at 19 was probably her first mistake…

  47. God Bless you child,just keep moving forward!All will be fine! GOD BLESS!

  48. I must have missed something in her statement. Where does it mention infidelity? Just because she made a very profound statement, doesn’t mean that she is without fault. She was always a spoiled daddy’s little girl. It takes two to make a marriage and no one on the outside knows exactly what went wrong, no matter who she is.

  49. Good thing she came to her senses very early on in order not to drag out years of pain and avoid a possible tragedy. good for you Sarah, I think you did the absoulute right thing for you and kids.

  50. 19 years old was to young to get married. if you making a decision from the bible you’re making a big mistake for your divorce. then you want your privacy why print your business who cares

  51. I’m surprised the Bishop didn’t get some of those bodyguards to tax that dude.

  52. They both were to young and immature from the begining. Neither of them really had any life skills in dealing with someone in a long term relationship.

  53. Im not against young folks getting married. Our grandparents did it…and stay married forever!

  54. God Bless you Honey.Do what you have to do.If it isn’t working DON’T STAY in it!!!! You deserve so much better.GOD wants to have JOY!!!

  55. is she the one who had her first child at 14.. not judging,just saying that she probably was her own issues around relationships as well..it does affect the Christian commumity because even though divorce is real and happens all the time, we always hope (and pray) that those with influence will have a grace and discernment about these things. 19 is young, but you can go to heaven in a bad marriage.. h**l is for fornicators IJS

  56. And this is news because?

  57. They were too young!

  58. SO CALLED CHRISTIANS ARE A TRIP, THE BIBLE SAYS GOD WILL JUDGE THE SINNERS, AND THE SAINT WILL JUDGE OTHER SAINTS WHEN THEY SEE THEM FALLING AWAY FROM THE WORD OF GOD. A SINNER DOES WHAT HE SUPPOSE TO DO AND THAT IS SIN, AND A SAINT IS SUPPOSE TO LIVE BY THE WORD OF GOD. WHEN THE HOLY SPIRIT IS DWELLING INSIDE OF YOU, YOUR BODY IS DEAD TO SIN. ALL YOU FAKE CHRISTIANS WHOSE PLEASURES GOES AGAINST GODS WORD, AND YOU PRACTICE SINNING MORE THAN YOU DO PLEASING GOD. I AM A SINNER BUT AT LEAST I AM NOT A HYPOCRITE. THE BIBLE SAYS YOU ARE BETTER OFF TO NOT KNOW THE WORD THEN TO KNOW THE WORD AND DISOBEY IT.

  59. Good Lord! who wants to stay with a man that’s having s*x with boys or men period? That sucks and it’s nasty. I truly don’t think that no woman should stay with a man that’s having s*x with boys or men. She’s putting herself and life in danger. Possible AIDS. Sometimes, we have to let the fame and fortune go and live to keep life. The bible don’t teach or tell anyone to stay with someone that’s having s*x with anyone. Male or Female. We all know that a lot of the men in sports like the white girls and cheats. Look at the reality shows. They all have divorced wives on there. Men with fame and fortune are selfish and inconsiderated. I think that if they don’t love and respect you, you should leave them. Exspecially a Pastor that standing in the pulpit telling people daily and weekly how to live a christ like life.

  60. Yes he cheated. he cheated a lot. Even prior to them being married he cheated while he was in school, so it’s not like she was oblivious to his ways. I just don’t know how you can make a public statement and then ask for privacy. But I’ll make a wager that this situation is going to be a part of some publicity scheme- i mean ministry. I wonder how many times she caught him and instead of dealing with her husband, she used her “resources” and attacked the other woman. I’ve only heard of one occasion. I also hear that the Jakes’ scared her first baby daddy out of all of his rights because he was so young when she got pregnant. they didn’t want him to have anything to do with her anymore. It will be interesting to see what they’ll send Henson through during this divorce. cheau.

  61. Mrs. Henson’s personal life is her own business. Who are we to judge?

  62. This is a joke. I can’t believe people continue to take this cat and his ministry seriously. He has a son that’s a f****t and a pervert that wacks off in public. And he has a daughter that’s a s**t and has been a s**t not long past the age where most little girls haven’t long put down their barbie dolls. The black church is a joke. People file in weekly by the millions in this country with the purpose of being entertained by a hoopin and hollarin crook or being seen in the social thing to do on Sundays. Think I’m lying, check the facebook pages of some of your church members during the week. Its a joke. I go to church but get very little out of it. I get much more outta private Bible study in my home. And at home. I don’t have to worry about getting hit in the head by some idoit claiming they’re “feeling the Holy Ghost” and knocking the ever lovin p**s outta everyone during their performance.

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  64. KMM is right…when she said, “There are biblical grounds supporting this decision and I have attempted every other recourse but after multiple infractions over the course of the union” I took that as cheating and when she went on about the safety of her and her kids I took that as physical abuse….duh

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