So many people have so many strong emotions when it comes to the topic of child support. There are those who have to pay it and resent that they have to spend years paying money and having no control over how it will be spent or even wasted.
There are also those who are supposed to be receiving child support and are frustrated because they are not getting the money they need to help them take care of the expenses that come with raising a child.
While it is not hard to understand why so many people have strong emotions and opinions about child support, it is important to remember that the system was created to cover some or all of a child’s basic needs, such as food, clothing, housing, education and childcare.
According to ebony.com there are 10 things you may not have known about Child Support:
1. Although men are most frequently the providers of child support, 15 percent of all people who pay child support are women.
2. The average child support payment made in the U.S. is $430 a month.
3. About 30 percent of all custodial parents never receive one cent of the child support legally due them–even if they have a court order for child support.
4. There are no national guidelines for determining an adequate amount of child support. Each state uses its own calculations to set child support.
5. Child support money is completely tax-free income for the recipient, but is NOT tax-deductible for the person paying child support.
6. Child support and visitation rights are two distinct and different legal matters. (You can’t legally stop paying child support just because an ex makes it hard for you or even prevents you from seeing your child).
7. Child support is not dischargeable by bankruptcy. (Even if you are dead broke, deep in debt or out of work, a bankruptcy judge cannot wipe out due or overdue child support payments).
8. Child support orders can always be modified by a court order. (If there has been a significant “change of circumstances,” either parent can go back to court and request that child support be increased, decreased, or even eliminated).
9. A parent who is unemployed or has a reduction in income is still required to pay all court-ordered child support, unless that parent has received a court-approved, written child support modification from a judge.
10. Failure to pay child support can lead to serious consequences, including wage garnishment, asset seizure, credit bureau reporting, driver’s license suspension, passport denial, withholding of unemployment benefits, and even arrest or jail time.